Thursday, February 18, 2010

Random Thought Addendum

I have to deal with my issues. Because any issues you fail to deal with you pass on to your kids. Almost all of my issues are inherited ones. I might twist them and make them my own but they're based in issues that my parents had. Not blaming, just explaining. You're a product of your environment. You can chose not to be, but thats where you start.

This is not to say that I think that if I deal with all my issues then my kids will have none. Not at all, I'm quite sure they can come up with their own nice big icky set of issues. But I'd prefer not to gift wrap them and bury the kid up to his neck in my issues.

Because my issues suck.

So we need to work on them or risk passing them to the kid.


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